Collaborative Divorce

Finding an Amicable Solution with Collaborative Divorce

Collaborative divorce offers a structured, private way to resolve a divorce without courtroom conflict whenever possible. Instead of preparing for litigation, both spouses commit to working through the issues respectfully and transparently, with the shared goal of reaching a durable settlement. For many Illinois families, this approach can reduce stress, protect children from ongoing tension, and keep decision-making focused on long-term stability.

Block | Reid guides clients through the collaborative process with a Families First mindset—combining thoughtful advocacy, clear communication, and practical strategy at every stage. We help clients evaluate whether collaborative divorce is the right fit, set expectations early, and work toward solutions that protect both financial priorities and family relationships. When done well, collaboration creates space for intentional, efficient, and lasting resolution.

Finding the Right Fit

Collaborative divorce works best when both parties are willing to engage in good faith and commit to a respectful process. We help clients assess whether collaboration aligns with their goals, communication dynamics, and the complexity of the issues involved.
Agreement & Process Framework

The collaborative process begins with a formal participation agreement that sets the rules and expectations for how the case will move forward. We walk clients through what it means, how it protects the process, and the steps they can expect.
Interest-Based Problem-Solving

Instead of “winning” positions, collaborative divorce focuses on identifying priorities and building practical solutions. We help clients define what matters most and negotiate agreements that support stability, fairness, and workable outcomes.
Working with Neutral Professionals

Some cases benefit from using neutral financial or mental health professionals to support the process and keep discussions productive. We help clients understand when a team-based approach is useful and how those professionals fit into the structure.
Communication & Conflict Reduction

Collaborative divorce is designed to encourage transparency and reduce unnecessary escalation. We help clients stay organized, communicate effectively, and resolve issues in a way that protects privacy and lowers emotional and financial strain.
Settlement Drafting & Consensus

Once terms are reached, the details must be carefully documented and executed correctly. We ensure the final agreement is thorough, reflects the negotiated intent, and is positioned for a smooth path to court approval under Illinois law.